What About My Weight

What About My Weight?

By Fred Pruitt

Hi, Fred,

I just want to tell you I love reading your articles & the truths in them have enriched my life. I just would like to know your thoughts on something. I struggled with an eating disorder for over 12 years. Ever since I started reading your articles and have continued attending my church, I have not binged in over five months. The one thing that still gets me sometimes is my physical appearance. I still feel overweight and am kind of disgusted with myself. I even went to the doctor and he said it is vital I lose weight. It is like I “know” the truth but because my outward appearance does not line up, I sometimes get depressed and a bunch of thoughts start to come flooding back in my mind. Two of your articles have been awesome for me, “Struggling with habits” and “Wingback chair and further.” I was just wondering if you had anymore comments on me about this struggle with I have with myself. As I stated before, it is like I “know” the truth, but when I step on the scale sometimes the number that comes up kinda wrecks me. But I have to admit, I am getting stronger in that area where it does not affect me as much, but it still does, and that is what I would like your opinion on.

Thank you & I hope to hear from you soon.

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Hi _____,

Thank you for writing. I am delighted that you find things I write to be helpful to you. So I’d be glad to have a short word to you about this.

I would just first of all say, continue on as you are doing! One of the hardest, maybe it is THE hardest, things to do is to “let go” of appearances. It is vital, because once freed from a “slavery” of being unwillingly bound to having to “manifest something,” the Spirit can open in us our true inner Resource and state of being, i.e., “Christ in us” to “be us.” That is what Galatians 2:20 means, in a nutshell. It is no longer ‘I,” but Christ has “replaced” that false image of ourselves, so that it is a “death” to us as it was by His Death, that the Liar is cast out of us as it was out of Him when He “became sin for us” in 2 Cor 5, (just as everyone in Israel who gazed at the Brass Serpent raised on a pole in the wilderness were “healed” of the snake’s bite in Numbers 21, as Jesus brought up to Nicodemus in John 3), and when He was raised by the power and Spirit of the Father, we were also raised by the Same Spirit and as it says repeatedly in Ephesians – we were “quickened together with Christ,” “raised up together,” and “sit together in heavenly places in Christ Jesus.”

I find that word “together” to be a wonderful truth. Listen, it is saying. Yes, Christ died, Christ rose again, and that is the Source of our salvation and restoration to God, and even more than that, it is the Source of our daily Life in Him, as we learn and live Jesus’ “life of the Cross.” This word “together,” however, changes the meaning of the Passion from being mainly that Jesus died and resurrected, but that every bit of it, was not merely geared toward our admiration and adoration of Jesus Christ, but that WE the Sons and Daughters of God would be raised TOGETHER WITH HIM.

What this is saying, is that Who and What He is, has now become Who and What I am. It is a complete revolution! (The only fully successful “revolution” in human history!) What was of the old has been cast out and what remains is only the new. Does not 2 Cor 5:17 say that very thing? Why do we not believe it? Why do we not believe it when it goes on to say, in verse 21, that He was “made sin for us,” that we might become the “righteousness of God?” Why do we shrink back from that, and instead focus on ourselves constantly and our own “lining ourselves up” to what God says or expects as we perceive it?

But back on this word “together”? Do we see the import of that word, imagine its dimensions? Here is an incredible “joining” in black words on white paper (or screen), of heaven and earth, so that even as it was in Jesus, it is the same in us. “Together” brings us into the bosom of the Godhead. “Together” in this case, is as the “biblical” meaning of “know” – to be “mixed with” what you know, i.e., “Adam knew Eve his wife, and she conceived …” The sexual union is pointing to a greater and truly actual union, union of spirits, interpenetrating each other, mixed together as one. Sexual union cannot attain to that level, because we are still “separate” from each other in our bodies. But in the Spirit there is no separation, no “me” over here and “the Spirit” over there. We are One. “Together.”

I will declare the decree,” says the Psalmist (2),“the LORD hath said unto me, Thou art my Son; this day have I begotten thee. Ask of me, and I shall give thee the heathen for thine inheritance, and the uttermost parts of the earth for thy possession.”

We are now inheritors of all that He inherits, which is everything! We live in the world as He as ourselves, and He lives in our world as Himself as us. WE declare the decree! You declare the decree! It is your rightful and promised heritage in the Lord, that as we died together with Him, were raised together with Him, were quickened together with Him, and dwell in heavenly places together with Him, that we also equally and fully have the whole universe as our inheritance and may each claim it as a Son of the household!

Now that’s where we live from, even if in the moment we are troubled or tempted or cannot quite see it. Like clouds which hide a mountain from view, things trouble us and we are meant to acknowledge that “trouble” as the clouds covering the mountain, because we have learned that the clouds do part and the mountain previously hidden comes into full view. That is the beauty of it. In this life we are constantly “exercised” in the Spirit, for the simple reason that this is how God grows us up to know Him and the “power of His resurrection,” and the scary part, “the fellowship of His sufferings, being made conformable unto His death.”(Eph 3:10).

Now what does this all have to do with your situation as you have described it?

The answer now always lies in Who we are. You see, there is no need now whatsoever to do anything to “improve yourself” in Christ, to somehow become “more pleasing” to Him or to yourself, which you interpret as being able to master your eating disorder and weight problem. That is the beauty of being acceptable in God. He says you are acceptable! (Eph 1:6). So, if we are acceptable to God, and He says we plainly ARE accepted in “the beloved,” (the Son), why do we find ourselves unacceptable? Whose judgment should we heed? Our own, or should we defer judgment of acceptability to God? If we do, we better watch out, because He will find us ACCEPTED!

That is always a “right now” truth! It exists outside our “works” or efforts at performance, and is not affected by it, either positively or negatively. He ALWAYS finds us accepted in the Beloved!

So maybe we should take a hint from the Lord on this, to see ourselves as HE sees us and tells us He does, and forget that false image of ourselves as someone “apart” who is always trying to get closer to God, Who always seems just out of reach. This false sense of myself is the one who “has to” respond to the “law” of “thou shalt” or “thou shalt not” continuously, never finding freedom because full and total obedience is always elusive, being that the law is endless and relentless and without mercy.

That is how we used to live, but in realizing that false “old man” which I thought I was, has died forever in the Cross of Jesus, and the “me” that died on that Cross also was this old “false” man I was, deceived by the devil in just about everything, we can begin to comprehend just how TOTAL has been the transformation we have undergone through the Cross (when I say “through the Cross,” it also implies “resurrection”), because we have been taken into and permeated, beyond our knowledge and current consciousness, with heavenly Life. We operate out of a “different program” from before, speaking in cyber jargon. The operating system has completely changed from the deepest place within, and out from that deepest place, takes full possession over all the aspects, faculties, workings and outcomes of the computer it operates.

In that regard, our new “operating system” originates in heaven, and where that “heaven” is, is inside us! We are a “point” in the material world, out of which can flow Life from the spiritual world, the kingdom of heaven world. It does not come down from the sky. It comes out of our deepest selves, as Jesus said, “He that believeth on me, out of his belly shall flow rivers of living water.” (Jn 7:38). We are living out of heaven, in the earth. The Life that is in us and “operates” us, is heavenly Life, Spiritual life, and God bears His fruit on our branch in the fullness of His time!

So regardless of situation or appearance, we stand there in that faith and understanding, if we have seen it. Of course we cannot stand in something we do not yet see, (even though He is already “standing” in us), but the Lord opens our eyes to these truths as we get to the point that we need them, and He is faithful to bring us along in Him perfectly every moment of every day. We believe and stand in our truth, whether we are rich or poor, heavy or thin, healthy or ill, depressed or elated, feeling lonely or overwhelmed with people around – whatever we are into, wherever we are, we are Christ there in that situation, no longer about ourselves and our own spiritual welfare or emotional stability or any other “personal” gain we might attain, because our own “needs” can now forever be put in the background, because they are all “met” in Him because He is the answer to them all. We’re taken care of. He’s got us, so therefore it is time to get off “me” and realize that whoever and whatever I am experiencing in the current moment, even if it seems to be “about me,” is not really that, because He already “has” me, purchased by His blood, and now I am part of His flow of “other-love” out into the world. Everything that happens to me is not for me anymore, but useful to His purposes of redemption and reconciliation.

Once we realize that everything in me (because of Who I am – “Christ” in me, so that He is now living “as me,” being that we are “one,” as He prayed to the Father we would be in John 17: 11,20-23), is now fuel and life not just for me but for others, my whole life, no matter what it is or what the circumstances are, takes purpose and meaning from this limitless supply of the Rivers of Living Water coming out of me as a direct and automatic “result” of “believing on Him.” It is not that is has not been happening already – it is just that we have not realized it – but now we do!

As far as specifics about your eating disorder, I’m no counselor and certainly not an M.D., so I leave those matters to them. To continue treatment or therapy for your disorder, if that is an option, is purely your call. You and He are one. Do not interpret lack of weight loss as some sort of failure on your part, or even worse that God is not with you in it. Do what you do as Christ, even getting therapy if that is the road you need to go down. Or if that is not the road you decide, again, this is purely your call, and you can live in the faith that it is no longer “you” living this life, but Christ, so that whether you go the way of therapy or no therapy, whether you lose weight, do not lose weight, or even gain weight, just tell the Lord this is His body now, so you leave it to Him.

I know it’s tough, but tough is good! We ALL have those spots, things we do not like about ourselves, etc., and we ALL have to learn this to go on to the fullness in consciousness and understanding. We even go so far as to say our greatest “weaknesses” are no longer liabilities about ourselves, as we have always seen them. No, now that God has taken us farther than just knowing “His acts,” into beginning to know, understand and operate consciously “in His ways,” (Ps 103:7), we see these “weaknesses” no longer as liabilities, but part of our greatest assets! It may not be currently clear that could possibly be, but those of us who have been around for a while have seen that truth proven over and over. And you will see it, too!

The key, for this and really for ALL things, is to see God in all of it! If there are people who think someone cannot be a “good witness” for Christ because of some physical condition, those people are mistaken, and they are always with us as challenges to our faith. But, the Light shines where the Light shines, and God delights in confounding the wisdom of the wise, by exhibiting the full grace of His Holy Presence in the weak, the meek, the humble and simple. When our eyes are opened, we see the Light shines everywhere, because we live in a realm where we do not depend on the light of the sun or the light of the moon, but only on the Light of the Lamb. The outer circumstances do not matter, except as the foreground where the “battle” is joined, a “battle” we can only win because He Who is in us is greater than he who is in the world. The “foreground” changes from day to day, though it is always the same issue – too see Christ in the chaos – which then takes on recognizable form as purposed by the Father’s wisdom in everything, and therefore love at the center always.

You are Christ living in the world incognito as you. Can you take that? Of course you can! My sheep know my voice!

Being in Christ at this point of beginning to know our union with Him, that it is “no longer I’” running this show and living this life, but it is Christ, is a GLORIOUS truth of “rest” in Christ. That is a pretty blanket authoritative statement! It’s no longer “you,” but Christ! We can take it in just that simplicity! There is more to see, to be sure, more to understand even about this verse (Gal 2:20), but even our deeper knowledge and understanding of it will not change one iota the fact which already is fact, that it is no longer I living, but Christ. We can stop right there and live from that alone through all eternity.

But of course, as long as we are here, we continue to grow in understanding and knowledge of this one great truth of existence and to operate in it for the benefit of the Church and the world.

I have found when we major on the major (Who we are) we do not have to fiddle around too much with the minor (self stuff), because He takes all of ourselves in with Him into this union life, and everything about us now becomes His possession, which, as the Psalm said, He rules with a “rod of iron.” That sounds scary, or it can anyway.

But it is not meant to be threatening violence if we depart from Christ or His ways, but rather a much deeper thing, as I have come to know it. The “rod of iron” came to me, many years into my walk, as what I have described elsewhere as a “spiritual backbone.” It is somewhat two-fold, with an inner component and an outer one.

The inner component, was simply the sense of being completely confirmed in oneness, as an unalterable fact by the uprising of the Spirit in me. I’ve stated it many times also in regard to Mark 4, where the kingdom of heaven is like a man who cast seed into the ground, and keeps coming back to inspect them at various stages of the plants’ growth, only to find them fully mature and fruit-bearing in the end. The story closes with this little statement, “he knoweth not how.” That just really struck me one day. It has become one of my favorite biblical statements. It was, in a sense, the same day (or period) where He made my inner backbone in Him as a rod of iron as if in a heartbeat, and I realized all of a sudden that that which I thought had eluded me for years, had happened without my even realizing it was happening, that I had “grown up” in the kingdom of heaven, and I “knew not how.” It just happened one day, the Spirit showed it to me, and from that point, it has not been the daily struggle to “keep” believing it, as it was for a while, but a transition into the simple rest of fact, like knowing if you have to write a check for a million dollars, you know it’s there in the account if you need it. For years my divine account (according to my own perception, but not according to truth) seemed to have insufficient funds, and to “work it” was like presenting my bank card at the store, with that little wait period before the machine sends its approval, and hoping the funds are there because you’re not quite sure you’re going to be approved, until it rings up on the cash register. (“Please, Lord, let it go through!”)

So it takes a while to get used to the fact that we have this full divine account, on which we can never bounce a check, but like I say, it takes a while to understand that, which also, of course, is God’s plan. The road for each of us is perfect in God, and we can walk in that boldness and perfection right now, because we are not concerned with man’s ideas of perfection, but only God’s, and in His estimation, not only are we accepted, we are far more than accepted, but equipped, trained, perfected, quickened, cleansed, blessed, called, conformed to His image, without spot or blemish, without sin as He is without sin, the righteousness of God, the light of the world and the salt of the earth. That is just a short list of the many “perfections” God does and manifests by our lives, even in circumstances that we might question or be unsure of. We have nothing to be ashamed of, nothing to apologize for, nothing except praise to God and the faith of Christ operating in us just as it is He, not we, and the life we are now living we live by HIS faith, and that this is the overriding truth of life, my life and also in every one else who is in Christ as well!

The “outer component” is to take that perceived “weakness” of yours, and proudly proclaim it as God’s asset!

Let me know how it is going!

Blessings,

fred

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7 thoughts on “What About My Weight

  1. Seeing who we really are is the key to everything. What a joy this is and how sad that Christianity in general is not aware of this key.
    These days I compared my life with a double wall thermo glass. The outer wall is the body and the inner wall is the soul, the natural life. Whether we deal with our physical or our psychological make-up, who we really are, and where our identity lies, is in the content (cp. 1 Cor. 2:11a; Hebr. 12:9), being One in spirit. What a joy and what a rest!

  2. Fred, I need to thank you deeply for your marvellous posts that address the issues that I am dealing with now and previously. Your posts are beautiful and refreshing and I am trusting for deeper revelation from the Lord. Reading what you have written is encouraging me in what feels like my own “dark night of the soul”. Bless you!

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